Something recent just happend to my friends, and it made me so totally pissed off. But everyone else had their own way of dealing with what was happening, and it made me think about it.
3 Ways people vent...that i know of...dont take this as something that you should cherish forever =P
1. Rationalization- You do have a little emotion about whatever just happened, but you think it through and you rationalize it. You think about both sides, not just one. You think, how did this person act, how they're feeling and why they acted that way. Then how the other person is feeling about the action that was taken, and the action they will take...
[Sorry if that just made no sense to you...]
2. Emotional- Depending on the situation, you could be so totally pissed off, that there is no way you could possibly rationalize crap. You run on that emotion, and run until you eventually cool down, then see that there are two parts of the story, not just one. But by then, damage could already be caused.
3. Ignorance- You block it out. You aren't accepting the reality that is going on around you. You don't take it in, and you let it continue around you, while you wait for everything to fix itself on its own. You basicly numb yourself to the situation, and pretend that everythings fine.
Idk, its just something i felt like posting. Have fun.
Thank you to Alicia, for helping with the post =]
2.19.2007
Rationalization is a big word.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
1 comment:
interesting observations
ps: you created alicia's blog under your account...
Post a Comment